Friday, December 28, 2018

We Have A Second Child....

So...we have a second child...she is a girl...her name is Morgan...she is amazing AND her mom has NOT done a good job sharing pictures and blogs on her beautiful first year of life. Soooo....we shall try again...lol!

She is 18 months old! She is stubborn, wild and funny yet can be shy, sweet and so tender. She has a love hate relationship (but mostly love) with her sister. She is currently loves Elmo, Mimmie (Minnie Mouse), baby dolls, ABC song (still)& If You're Happy And You Know It song, MARKERS (eek) and anything her sister has. She is in the hiding phase...typically to go to the bathroom, which her older sister also did but also to hide from her sister, mom and dad so they don't take away whatever it is she has...that she is not suppose to. She tells us when she pees and poops in her diaper...."pee, pee" or "stinky" or "yucky". But hasn't quite mastered telling us BEFORE she goes...its during or after. But that's pretty good for her age. She sleeps all night (typically, unless she's not feeling well) but fights it like crazy during the day. So, for mom during the week...that's good...daycare has to deal with that...but weekends...that's another story. ;) Speaking of daycare....she is at Our Redeemer with her sister and we just LOVE the classroom she is in. She has Ms. Rhonda and Mr. Dennis and she just loves them both. At times, she doesn't want to go home with me and will just hug onto Dennis. Ms. Lilly is also in there quite a bit. We are so blessed to have these teachers at this stage of Morgan's life. She gets spoiled. She has a BFF in that room as well. Miss Aspen. They have been together since they were newborns and love seeing their relationship blossom. Ornery little girls but love them so much. Morgan's vocabulary has really taken off especially this last week or so. She's putting more and more words together and saying new things. Would have to say that her favorite word is probably NOOOO!!! (wonder why? ;)
She was a unicorn with her sister for Halloween and had a great time. Loved eating at Thanksgiving. And LOVES Santa....from a distance. She can say Santa and really likes the inflatable Santa we have outside the Santa ornaments, the Santa picture BUT DO NOT make her sit on Santa's lap. She doesn't like that...at all. 
She can run faster than a cheetah when she has something she isn't suppose to have. She can give you a million different looks, glares, frowns but when she smiles....awww....my heart. 
It wasn't like we had "a missing piece" to our family. We were good before but man, she sure brings it all together. She brings so many laughs and smiles to all of us but especially to Mallory. I know my relationships with my sisters are awesome so I can't wait to watch their relationship build through the years and hopefully they will form a bond that only sisters can have. When she wraps her little arms around my neck and gives me a squeeze.... my day is made. I was read somewhere that if a child needs a hug, to never be the first one to pull away. To hold on until they are ready to let go....I always think of this every time I get a hug from a kid but especially my kiddos. She will just hang on for what seems like forever and she just keeps hugging. I love her hugs. Or when she will pat my back. She sure completes our family.


Now...her older sister, Mallory. She is 7!!! (today actually but will post about that later) I know...I know...SEVEN!!! She is a HOOT! She is so smart and witty. She knows weird facts about weird things, which she gets from her dad. I have to check google to see if things she is telling me is actually true and nine times out of ten...she is right. Example: Mom, did you know that the male seahorse is the one that has babies and they have like 2,000 babies at once! Or Mom, did you know that Jupiter is the gas giant. Ummm....okay...no, didn't know that and how is that you are smarter than your mom?!?!? 😏 And....she likes math! (not sure she's my daughter because I hate math). She loves to read and is so good at it. She's just a great kid. She is into Barbies, Shopkins, LOL Dolls. She LOVES art...she is a very good artist. My goal this winter/spring is to start teaching her how to play the piano. (pray for me and my ears). She loves being at North. She has been blessed with some wonderful teachers and a GREAT classroom full of great kiddos. She still plays soccer and loves it as well as tumbling/dance at Steven's. I am hoping to find some places she can play volleyball as she attended a camp this summer and fell in love with it. (now THAT'S my daughter). She is in that sassy stage so we have to do a few "check yourself moments" here lately. But her heart is still in the right place. Sometimes she just thinks she's 13 and not 7!!! Time already goes by too fast...so skipping a few years is NOT ALLOWED! 

So there's all that....hoping the posts will be more frequent and detailed as time goes on especially with Mallory's birthday and Christmas! 



These pics are just for blogging purposes to reflect on later. And a recap of some moments we have shared over the year of not blogging....I will maybe one day blog about Morgan's birth. It was quite the story...lol! So enjoy the million pics I'm about to post.....

Mick and I received tickets to Monday Night Football at Lambeu Field! AMAZING....and COLD!! Mick became a cheese head for a night. Then the "hotel" we stayed at on the lake and of course the cheese factory in the middle of no where that we had to find. :) 








 Morgan...last year at this time...
 Morgan was at the age then where she would let ANYONE hold her....even Suzanne. :)
 I LOVED this age....she would just snuggle up in that thing and watch people. She was so good.
 Oh these two and the friendship they have....here they are playing "dentist".
 Her first Christmas...cute as a button
 New Year 2018....little did we know what a good year it would be.


 My bald baby.....
 Bouncing bald baby
 We got to meet Mike Matheny. What a cute group of kiddos.
 Go Cardinals.
 What a nice looking man....
 First time in a high chair at a restaurant.....the look of shock was when sissy ate her food. ;)
 Hey there beauty....just stylin' at daycare..
 Miss Hot Stuff
 St. Patrick's Day 2018
 Easter 2018-TWINS!
 9 months old!
Snow & Ice on Easter Sunday!
 Mother's Day
 Snuggles at Daycare
 The "Brandy" bun
 So little.....sissy let me snuggle her teddy bear.
My first bow...it didn't stay since I have no hair.

 Sweet baby....so funny to see her with no hair...but look at those lashes.
 Mallory played t-ball at the YMCA this past spring.

 These three......Mallory, Henry and Jentry enjoyed t-ball.
 She also played soccer again last spring. She enjoyed playing with Jentry.
 Jentry's aunt went through some brutal breast cancer so we went to a walk in Springfield to honor her. She is one TOUGH cookie.
 Celebrating SAM!
 Team Sam!!!
 Dance Recital 2018
 Catch A Falling Star and put it in your pocket....
 Ballerina
 Poms 2018
 Morgan's 1st birthday!
06-20-18
 We had to put our sweet Roxie girl down this year. She had cancerous tumors that were just making her life miserable. The end was pretty bad. She was such a good dog.


 Enjoying a car ride with Aunt Dana.

 
Her last truck ride....;(

 Morgan's "one in a melon" 1st birthday party!

 Barb Wiegand at her finest! DELICIOUS!
 What a stinker.


 Playing with sissy
 Mallory learned to ride her bike with no training wheels
 Mallory also got be a brave little swimmer this summer. Jumping off the high dive at Nicholas Park.
 Morgan County Fair...always a favorite!
 Mallory participated in the talent show this year.
 She also braved whatever this thing is at Knights Action Park...was super terrified (as was I with my child who weighs nothing and thought she was going to fly out) but still kept going back for more.
 Adams County Fair annual Selby Implement photo. Anyone know someone who works there? Would love a shirt...;_)
 What you lookin' at sheep?
 A baby sheep was born while we were walking through....first photo for this little lamb was with the Selby girls.
 The Schildman's came home for a visit!
 This little dude was such a ham. LOVE HIM!
 Snuggles with Mallory before driving back to COLORADO!
 Sister snuggles on the hammock.
 Oh man....so this was the beginning of our Thomas Rhett concert at the State Fair....
 RAIN DELAY!
 Waiting inside while it rained....like really hopeful the concert was going to still happen.
BAAAHAAA! Yeah right....
 When we walked out.....FLOOD!
 Oh snap! There is way too many people in this smelly tunnel
 And a whole lot of WATER...disgusting, dirty water....barf....
 And cold....
 SOOOO COLD!!! You can see how high it came up on my legs...and I am tall...
 So obviously I took my pants off when I got in the car...I wasn't about to wear those disgusting things for one more second longer....what an adventure. I swear....that stuff always happens with Dana and I.
 Mallory enters 1st Grade
 Her teacher Mrs. Stendback
 We love North!
 Sleepover with the cousins
 Morgan thinks she fits in her baby's cradle....she does not.
 Trip to the zoo!
 Carousel fun
 
We also had to put our sweet Momma Kitty down after I accidentally hit her with my car backing out of the garage. I will NEVER forget the scream that came out of my six year old daughter. "WHY WOULD YOU DO THAT MOM!?!?" Uggh....I felt AWFUL! She was such a good cat.
 We treated Jentry to the girl's first Cardinals game.
 Thinking they are hot stuff....too bad those weren't our seats.
 GO CARDINALS!
 WILD CARDINAL FANS.....which they are WILD!
 Time to eat some ballpark food. Then I'm pretty sure Mallory fell asleep after this...
 Finally...it's over!
 Prairieland time...
 This girl....is so ornery.....
 Stinker...
 But cute....
 Girls Trip 2018-Herman, MO
 Oh the stories we have....the memories we make on these trips...I will forever hold dear to my heart. I laughed so hard!!! So glad mom was feeling better than she was for the last girls trip we had to St. Louis.
 Our cabin


 Now that's a sugar momma!!
 Trip to WALMART is even fun.
 It was the cutest little cabin. I LOVED it and would love to go back!

 I conquered the fireplace. Built my first ever indoor fire....BY MYSELF. (mic drop)
 This poor kid.....
 Winery fun

 Mallory's fall soccer season. We SOOOO enjoyed having Coach Adam as our coach this year. He taught Mallory so much this past fall and she is anxious to start again in the spring.
 Daycare pictures
 This stinker wouldn't give us a good picture....she bit into this apple....that was Styrofoam.
 We did get one smile
 Mallory showing her sis how its done.



 Halloween 2018----UNICORNS!
 Pumpkin patch in Mendon
 She loved the corn pit!
 So did these girls.
 What a ham...

 Toothless cousins!
 Enjoying a beautiful November day at grandma/grandpa's house. They like to pretend fish off the deck
 Morgie sandwich
 Mallory's aunt and uncle (and cousins) came for a visit. Mallory couldn't not get enough of Baby Marcus!
 Morgan just wanted to show off
 She snuggled right up to Aunt MaryAnn

 Reading a book together.
 
Pancakes & PJS at Applebee's. Mallory's friend's from school. They have so much fun together!
 My friend from high school was back home from North Carolina to help her parents move out of her childhood home...where I spent many nights at when I was younger. It was so bitter sweet to see everything moved out and empty.
 We went through a box of her stuff and found some memories...

Tuesday, February 21, 2017

Baby Girl Selby

Well, the news is out! We are having a GIRL! Things of course didn't go as planned...
So, Monday, January 20th....we had our anatomy sonogram. Mick and Mallory both were off work/school so we decided that this would be a great time to go as a family. They would check over health of baby as well as confirm sex. We all know of course that Mallory can't keep a secret since she told everyone we were pregnant before she was suppose to so we decided that we would keep this information from Mallory until we were ready to tell all of our family and friends. We, or should I say I.....wanted to wait until March or so when we could tell family in person. Mick and I of course would find out but just not tell anyone else.
So off we went....things were going great...Mallory was super excited. They began the sono and was showing Mallory the arms, legs, head, heart, etc. And all she wanted to know was it a boy or girl. Mallory had her heart set on a girl and Mick had his heart set on a boy. I, truly didn't care either way but had a feeling it was a girl due to the way I was carrying and how sick I had been...which was just like Mallory. I asked the nurse to not say the sex out loud so she wrote it on a piece of paper. I stuck it in my purse and of course I had to use the bathroom so Mallory and I went. Mallory was trying so hard to get me to peek without daddy. I of course didn't but then got the same pressure from Mick when we got on the elevator. I wanted to wait and do something fun and special at home...Mick was not waiting. So we went to the gift shop and Mick and I opened it....IT'S A GIRL! Mallory saw us and said let me see....so what does Mick do.....shows it to her and SHE READ IT!!!! WHAT?!?! That was not the plan....she said...oh that's a G...and began sounding out the letter ga, ga, ga....it's a girl!!! She was soooo excited...>I was so shocked! I kept trying to convince her that it may not say that but she was certain that was a G and that was the sound....etc....So all the way to the restaurant she kept saying...I know it's a girl, I know it's a girl....Then wrote on her magna-doodle Baby Girl!! Are you kidding me? Well...looks like we will have to confirm Mallory's suspicion and hurry and tell our family before Mallory tells everyone at school on Tuesday!!!! So we confirmed it at lunch and she says, "Yeah, I know...I read it!" Little stinker butt......At the time, I was a little sad as this is not how I planned to tell our families or how to reveal it on Facebook to our friends but now that it has sunk in...it's pretty funny and glad that my baby girl is learning her letters.
Mallory had been praying for a healthy baby, boy or girl every night....it would sound something like this...
Dear Jesus, Please keep mom and baby safe and healthy whether its boy or girl but I really want a girl. Amen.
So she said at lunch yesterday...."All those prayers paid off cuz' I know Dad didn't pray like I did." ;)
God answered her prayers and ours.....it's a girl, so far everything looks great and we can't wait to meet sweet baby!
Facebook Poll:
Twins-11 people!!! You guys are CRAZY! I may be big but there is defiantly only ONE baby in there! ;)
Boy-50 people
Girl-31
(As of noon Tuesday, Feb. 20th)
 Someone is EXCITED!
The note she wrote in the car......she was right!
Baby Girl
So I asked Mallory last Wednesday if she knew how to do a one-handed cart wheel. She assured me she did...hmmmmm...
So when we went to Grandma Nono's, where she loves to tumble due to size of the living room she showed me. And she did it...not super great and not every time but still impressed. I asked her how she learned how to do that and she replied: By sticking my hand in my pants like this...Oh my!!! Sure hope she doesn't do this at dance class...they will think she's crazy. Lol!!! 🤸‍♂️
Whatever works....


Wednesday, February 15, 2017

Catching Up

Well, well, well....man have I taken a vacation...a looonnggg vacation from this blog. And boy has a lot changed since then. As most of you know, our biggest news is that Baby Selby #2 will be making his or her appearance in June! It has been a long journey for sure and we are so grateful. Some don't know but we weren't able to get pregnant for three years. We didn't really share that information with others and I'm not sure why but we didn't. The doctor I was seeing kept putting things on the back burner and eventually sent us to a fertility specialist in Springfield. After several ultrasounds, they raised the question of "Where are your ovaries?" They couldn't find my ovaries. After many tests, they eventually found the left but couldn't find the right. After finding a mass on my right Fallopian tube, they suggested surgery. In which things didn't really go as planned and not only could they not find my ovary but they also had to remove my right Fallopian tube and noticed my left was very damaged from scar tissue. So hope was VERY slim of getting pregnant. We were to start clomid and low and behold...after three years of trying....we got pregnant. So even though we had been trying for so many years, when it "accidentally" happened-it took me awhile to grasp the reality of it all. I had it in my head that a second child wasn't in our store for us. So that's the journey of our second baby....Mallory is beyond excited. She is so sweet with everything. She will ask every day how baby is doing. I have once again been super sick, like I was with Mallory and she will come and check on me and make sure I'm okay. She will bring me an ice pack without even asking her to, just to make sure my back is doing okay. She is awesome and LOVE seeing her so anxious.
With that...Mallory is 5!!! She has grown so much..super tall and skinny. Some of her favorites are Barbies, Shopkins, watching YouTube Kid videos, Maureen Morris, Kelsea Ballerini, Moana, all things art and acting like a goofball. She is attending Pre-K at Salem Lutheran and loves it although the drama between some of the girls in her class are full force. She has been with some of her classmates since birth at her old daycare and think that their relationships have become more of a sibling relationship than friend. They love each other yet argue like sisters. ;) Her faith has grown by being at Salem and my favorite part of my day by far is bedtime. I will lay down with her and we talk about her day. It's where she confides in me and tells all...I hope this doesn't ever go away or that she always wants to tell me how she feels. And of course we say our prayers....and I love listening to what she has to pray about that night. LOVE!
On a side note: Some funny things that Mallory has said lately:
Mom, you know Donald Trump doesn't rule the world. Only God does!
Mom, you are my Magical Dream Team!
She calls Taco Bell...Taco Ring Ring.
The song "To Kill A Word" ...she thought that it said, "If I could only, kill a WORM!"
She told me she was going to buy we all these animals and bring them home. So she would say:
Mom, I'm going to buy you a giraffe. I would say, You can't buy me a giraffe, it's too big.
Mom, I'm going to buy you a monkey. I would say, You can't buy me a monkey, it sticks.
So she finally says, "Mom, I'm going to get you a bunny. I said, "Perfect!"

 
 Old Picture: 1st Day of Salem

 Picture Day at Salem 2016
 Halloween at Steven's with her BFF Rylan
 Fun at the Pumpkin Patch
 BIG SISTER!

 First Train Ride to Chicago
 She loved it!

 Polar Express





 Hanging out with Miss Emily....she loves her and misses her so.
 5th Birthday
 The gang..old and new!
 Cousin sleepover

 Friday night fun

 Wowzers! 20 Weeks...Over half way there! large and in charge!
 Shopping at Toys R Us
 Fun with Snapchat